Judi called my folks yesterday and my mother was lying down so my father answered the phone:
Dad: Hello?
Judi: Hi Dad, it’s Judi
Dad: who?
Judi: Judi
Dad: Debbie?
Judi: no, Judi
Dad: Cindy?
Judi (who often felt somewhat invisible as the middle child): No, it’s Judi, the second one
Dad: oh, the second one. When are you coming to visit?
Judi: well, maybe not until next summer Dad
Dad: where are you?
Judi: I’m at Clemson University in South Carolina
Dad: do you have a plan of study?
Judi: well, no I’m teaching Dad
Dad: well I’m going to hang up now because I’m not interested in higher education
and he hung up….
I see him so often and it’s usually in the regular framework of shopping and church or talking about the boys so sometimes I get fooled as to how bad the Alzheimer’s is. Ernie just rescheduled Dad’s appointment with the neurologist because we’d had to cancel it when I was out of town and we can’t get one until late March.
Well, Judi and I did laugh about the whole thing. You HAVE to laugh….
Yeah, the laughter helps keep the tears away. Keep laughing.
yes, you do have to laugh
yes, you do have to laugh